Proper, discerning matchmaking.

We are dedicated to pairing Catholics and guiding them to the altar in 12 months or less.

How it works:

Video Interview

Once accepted, applicants enjoy a video interview so that their preferences, personalities and uniqueness can be accounted for during the matchmaking.

2 Matches

Within 90 days of their interview, men are matched with their first match. If it doesn't work out, they get a second match. Women do not have a limit on matches.

Constructive Critiques

If an applicant is not accepted, they will receive a brief explanation as to why the applicant is not yet prepared for marriage.

Some of the most frequently asked questions
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Why is it only for Catholics?

Marriage is not only a natural institution, it's a Sacrament. Sacraments are performed within the Catholic Church. The purpose of this service is to facilitate the lifelong sacramental union of young men and women, not to set up brief romantic interactions.

Why is it free for women?

In proper, Biblically-oriented marriages, women do not labor outside the home, nor provide for the household. Men do. This is the character of marriage this service facilitates, and the kind of marriage that our applicants desire. Thus, to begin the courtship with the same dynamic, it is free for women.

What if I am not accepted?

For both men and women, we will provide a brief but useful description for why they were not accepted.

What kind of person is accepted?

Our ideal male applicant is self aware, in good physical condition, can hold a good conversation with curiosity and politeness without defaulting to niche philosophical or theological topics. He has a good sense of humor, doesn't take himself too seriously, and is intent on bringing his future wife and children to heaven. He doesn't watch porn. He has good career motivation, even if he is not wealthy or going to be wealthy. He understands that marriage is about friendship, leadership, and fatherhood.

Our ideal female applicant is kind, not overweight, and looking to become a wife and mother. She is available, respectful, and encourages good conversation. She pursues feminine hobbies like cooking, baking, sewing, crafts, art, or music. She understands that she was made for a man, and is his glory. She isn't in pursuit of a career, and is eager to stay home once married to make the home and serve her husband, and become a mother.

Why is it $3,000?

This is not a dating app.

Our men and women are not thrown into a loosely filtered pool of thousands of other people, hoping to bump into their soulmate.

Men and women are rigorously filtered and paired with a highly compatible candidate with whom they could spend the rest of your life.

If $3,000 precludes a man from this service, it's likely he is not in a financial position to provide for a wife and begin a family within a year.

Matchmaking services typically run about $1,500 and sometimes up to $50,000 for marriage "bounties" (see Keeper.ai). The average year of dating (and failing to marry) costs a man $1,560. If a man is truly ready for marriage, this solves the most important aspect of his life most cost effectively and with the greatest efficiency.

Do you guarantee marriage?

We cannot guarantee you will choose to marry any of the individuals hand selected for you. However, we have accepted a small number of individuals compared to any service available, and we have had a comparatively high percentage of marriages resulting from our matches.

If you take it seriously, your probability of marriage is higher than any other avenue currently available, besides pure chance.

What if I have kids or was previously married?

If you have been sacramentally married and civilly divorced, we cannot service you. We also do not accept individuals who have had their marriages annulled.

If you were never sacramentally married, even if you have children, we can service you.

What if I am older than 35?

We are currently not accepting men or women over the age of 35.

What is your refund policy?

If a man has their first date (video call or in person), they waive the right to a refund. If the would like to withdraw from the service prior to that, we will issue a full refund.

Any participant - male or female - who "ghosts" (does not show up for the date or call) will be removed from our service without refund or exception.

Can I see a picture of my match before I agree to meet with them?

No. This is not a dating app. It is a matchmaking service. Matchmaking is the process by which a trusted 3rd party pairs two individuals from a community who would be harmonious and have a high probability of long term romantic success.

The process of "choosing" is given over to US - the objective third party.

Many individuals aren't in contact with the reality of their looks or personalities and this is why they're still single. This service should not be thought of as a means of purchasing access to a catalogue of people that the participant can peruse and select based on their own discretion.

Hinge, Tinder, Catholic Match, Bumble, The Courtship Network, Upward, etc. are all alternatives which do operate in this way.

Do women have a limit on matches?

Women can be matched sequentially - for free - as long as they would like to remain in the program and are not involved with someone else.

Does your service work?

Yes! On May 1st, 2024, we celebrated our first marriage. The couple was paired on July 24th, 2023. (Our service went live on June 20th, 2023).

We have had 6 additional marriages since then, and already have one baby born from an US marriage.