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Proper, discerning matchmaking.

A service for those young Catholic men and Christian or Catholic women intent on marriage within the next 12 months.

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What is provided:

Video Interviews

Men will undergo a live interview with the Gordons or Knowlands via Zoom, and women will complete a video interview submission.

2 Matches

Within 90 days of your call, Tim and Will - in collaboration with their wives - will consider all the profiles and provide you with up to 2 ideal potential spouses for you.

Guidance

If needed, Will and Tim occasionally provide assistance to those who need a little additional guidance during the process of courtship to increase their chances of a successful relationship.

Constructive Critiques

If an applicant is not accepted, Will and Tim will provide a brief explanation as to why they do not believe the applicant is prepared for marriage.

The Pool

This service is tightly curated to contain only virtuous, reasonably attractive, intentional young men and women. It is not an aggregate of anyone who wanted to join.

Some of the most frequently asked questions
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Why is it only for Catholics?

Marriage is not only a natural institution, it's a Sacrament. Sacraments are performed within the Catholic Church. The purpose of this service is to facilitate the lifelong sacramental union of young men and women, not to set up brief romantic interactions.

Why is it free for women?

In proper, Biblically-oriented marriages, women do not labor outside the home, nor provide for the household. Men do. This is the form of marriage this service facilitates, and the kind of marriage that our applicants desire. Thus, to begin the courtship with the same dynamic, it is free for women.

What if I am not accepted?

For both men and women, we will provide a brief but useful description for why they were not accepted.

Why is it $1,000?

This is not a dating app. You are not being thrown into a pool of hundreds or thousands of other people, hoping to bump into your soulmate. You are hiring two discerning men and their wives to select a highly compatible candidate with whom you could spend the rest of your life.

If $1,000 precludes a man from this service, it's likely he is not in a financial position to provide for a wife and begin a family within a year.

Matchmaking services typically run about $1,500 and sometimes up to $50,000 for marriage "bounties". The average year of dating (and failing to marry) costs a man $1,560. If a man is truly ready for marriage, this solves the most important aspect of his life most cost effectively.

Do you guarantee marriage?

We cannot guarantee you will choose to marry any of the individuals hand selected for you. However, the application process and subsequent interviews with Will and Tim filters for the most intentional candidates, leaving only interpersonal complementarity as the final factor for consideration. And that is where this service is distinct from a dating app. 40 years of marital coaching, dating assistance, and matchmaking are deployed on your behalf to maximize the complementarity of the 2 people you are matched with.

What if I have kids or was previously married?

If you have been sacramentally married and civilly divorced, we cannot service you. We also do not accept individuals who have had their marriages annulled.

If you were never sacramentally married, even if you have children, we can service you.

What if I am older than 30?

We are currently not accepting men or women over the age of 30.

What is your refund policy?

If a man has their first date (video call or in person), they waive the right to a refund. If the would like to withdraw from the service prior to that, we will issue a full refund.

Any participant - male or female - who "ghosts" (does not show up for the date or call) will be removed from our service without refund or exception.

Can I see a picture of my match before I agree to engage with them?

No. This is not a dating app. It is a matchmaking service. Matchmaking is the process by which a trusted 3rd party pairs two individuals from a community who would be harmonious and have a high probability of long term romantic success.

This means the process of determination is offloaded from the un-objective first person to US - the objective third party.

Many individuals aren't in contact with the reality of their looks or personalities and this is why they're still single. This service should not be thought of as a means of purchasing access to a catalogue of people that the participant can peruse and select based on their own discretion.

Hinge, Tinder, Catholic Match, Bumble, The Courtship Network, Upward, and others are all alternatives which do operate in this way.

Does your service work?

Yes! On May 1st, we celebrated our first marriage. The couple was paired on July 24th, 2023. (Our service went live on June 20th, 2023).

In addition to this first marriage, we have 3 other couples currently engaged (as of June 4th, 2024).

In addition to these 3 engagements, we have several couples in successful and ongoing courtships which are nearing engagement.